A Little Sibling Rivalry

In the last week, I've noticed Daniel starting to get jealous of Elsie attention.  She is needy about 6 PM, with feedings, diaper change, bath, bedtime, and cuddles.  If both parents are attending to her or the parent doing housework isn't paying attention to Daniel, we can expect some misbehavior. He acts out in anyway to get attention, even negative attention.  Usually this is taking a toy or object and yelling, "MINE!" but it could also be banging on a door repeatedly and not following directions.

Tonight at dinner Daniel said he was feeling sad, and we asked why.  He said, "No Elsie."  He agreed when we asked if he was upset she was there and wanted her to leave for a little while.  He responded really well to a calm talk about feelings and sharing that his father gave, and was in a better mood and seemed to enjoy watching her eat dinner.

Thoughtful Baby

Dear Son,

I've noticed that you thrive with time alone.

You do like to wiggle and play with toys and family members, and you also like to cuddle when you are sleepy. But you spend much of your wake time with a faraway, thoughtful look on your face. You are content to sit in your bouncy seat, laying sideways on a blanket, or propped up on my shoulder just looking around. This makes me wonder if you are thinking about pleasant memories, remembering your short life, or just observing what is around you.

Perhaps you will turn out to be a pensive, calm child with a keen eye for observation. I hope you will always experience the peace you have as an infant.

I will try my best to respect your need for quiet time, although its hard to resist playing and holding you when you look so sweet!